I'll just wait until I've lost a few more kilos…”

“Aah, will you Photoshop my stomach?”

“Haha, no one wants to see this ham stuffed into string!”

These are all things that I have heard women say about their bodies when asked if they've ever thought about getting themselves a boudoir shoot.

One of the biggest misconceptions about boudoir photography is that it's vain, self-indulgent or only for people who love being in front of the camera. In reality, most people who book a boudoir shoot are nervous, self-conscious and stepping far outside their comfort zone.

As a Melbourne boudoir photographer, I've seen firsthand how boudoir photography can help people reconnect with confidence, celebrate milestones and challenge years of negative self-talk.

Why is it that there is this belief that we need a partner to be able to celebrate our own selves. That we need to be able to have permission to get dressed up.

That we need permission to be able to spend money on us, to be like,

“Look how hot I am”

as a gift … for them!!! Why can't it be a gift … for us?

Oh that’s right. The patriarchy.

If you’re a sex worker in Melbourne or regional Victoria, you already know this—your photos aren’t just aesthetic.
They’re one of the most important tools in your business.

Whether you’re advertising independently, creating content, or building your personal brand, the right imagery can help you attract better clients, increase your rates, and stay in control of your identity.

As a female-operated boudoir photographer based in Melbourne, I specialise in working with sex workers who want private, inclusive, and professional photography that actually supports your work.

Every boudoir shoot is different—and so is how you prep for it. Here’s what to consider before your shoot (mentally and practically), with zero pressure and no BS, with Poledoir in Melbourne.

When you're thinking about a good photo shoot experience for you, write a little checklist for yourself. You've got to do your own little bit of homework. And when you're looking at choosing a photographer, have a look what's on their offerings and see what it is that they have for you. Now, a photographer that has all of the offerings is going to be more expensive, and that's just the truth. They have taken the time to curate a full experience for you - and the price will reflect that.

So, you’re considering a boudoir shoot but find yourself drawn to the safety and familiarity of black attire. Maybe lingerie isn’t something you typically wear, or perhaps you’ve amassed a collection of black pieces that offer a sense of comfort and confidence. You're here for a boudoir shoot to do something different. So why not do something different with what you're going to wear.

Boudoir is a very specialised form of photography.

Not only are you a photographer, but you are also often a therapist. There is a lot of vulnerability in boudoir sessions, and from a completely technical standpoint, you MUST understand not only how to utilise light and shadow, but also know how the body moves